As a young entrepreneur I have failed in some critical business decision making. But no matter what, I was definitely going to make those decision in my life time. Assuming I was married at that age you can imagine how difficult my partner and probably my kids will suffer for my mistakes. Make the necessary mistakes in your 20s while you are single and get married at your 30s when you are matured.
While it’s fun getting married in your 20s, tying the knots to get married in your 30s is so much better. There are lots of advantages to waiting until you are a little older before getting married. Mugabe married at 37, Bill Gates 37, Steve Jobs 37. I think it is a good age to tie the knot.
Below are 5 reasons why it is advantageous to get married in your 30s.
- YOU NOW KNOW WHO YOU ARE
It’s better getting married in your 30s because you know yourself better at this age. In your 20s, you are still trying to create yourself but you know who you are in your 30s and you also know what you can offer to your partner.
- YOU ARE MORE MATURE TO GET MARRIED
You are more mature in your 30s than you were in your 20s. When you get married as a more mature person, you would know how to handle issues in your marriage better.
3. YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT FROM A RELATIONSHIP
By your 30s, you must have dated a few persons which mean you are better equipped to know what your priorities should be in a relationship.
4. YOU ARE MORE SECURE IN YOUR CAREER
In your 20s, your education and career would be very important to you and it might be really difficult focusing on your marriage. When you get married in your 30s, you are more secure in your career and this means you can focus better on your marriage.
5. YOU ARE BETTER MANAGING FINANCES
Finance is really important in every marriage. It can make or mar a marriage. When you get married in your 30s, you are better at managing finances which means you would have fewer conflicts about money with your spouse.
Bonus; YOU ARE MORE CONFIDENT
We tend to be more confident as we get more mature. When you become married in your 30s, you are getting married as a more confident person which enhances your marriage.